#216: Feminine Men & the Nice Guy Dilemma - Dating Q&A with Anna Rova
Anna RovaEpisode Description
A woman in my Claimed client community (let's call her Jane) recently raised a juicy subject that I think is important for us to talk more about. So I decided to record a special episode to address her question.
(Listen to the full episode for more great Q&As around this topic from listeners who tuned into the live recording. )
Here’s what Jane asks:
“I'm dating this guy. He's a great guy and he would do anything for me. But I don't feel like I'm in love with him. My friends say that he's amazing and I'd be foolish to end this."
To Jane, and to every woman who finds themselves in this situation, I suggest asking yourself these questions:
1. How does it feel?
I have another client who says that she’s seeing this guy who’s extremely spiritual and talks about his feelings a lot and she’s not sure whether she should continue.
When I asked her this question in our group coaching call, she said something like, “Well, I think it’s great that he’s in touch with his feelings, but something isn’t right.
I’m questioning whether this is a good dynamic because I don’t want to fall back into my previous pattern of being with a man who is totally in his feelings and I’m ‘wearing the pants’ and that doesn’t feel good.”
This leads me to my next question…
2. Are you attracted to this man?
Usually, once we’ve identified how it feels, this is an easy one to answer.
No? Okay, next question…
3. Who’s holding more space for who?
Do you feel like you can completely trust this man? You can completely break down, and let him take care of you and himself when the sh*t hits the fan and things go down?
My sense is that your answer would also be no here.
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