166. Are You Exercising Leadership Over Your Life?
Beatrice KamauEpisode Description
These days, it's easier to follow, isn't it?
Follow your coach's example.
Follow your partner's lead.
Follow the way you've always done things.
Why is this? Because if you follow someone else's instructions or example, you get to blame them when things go wrong. If you never change anything about how you're pursuing whatever it is you want—a relationship, a job, a friendship—then you never have to acknowledge the ways that you've been responsible for your "failures."
It's time to learn what it takes to become a leader in your own life, ladies. Because the only way you're ever going to finally accomplish your beautiful vision for your life is by taking responsibility and leading yourself toward the culmination of that vision.
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