I’m lost, so what?

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   1. Cepee Tabibian: Hitting Refresh Abroad

   What would life look like if you completely ‘hit refresh’ and decided to move abroad, especially after 30? ✈️ In Season 2, Episode 2 of I’m lost, so what? Podcast, Cepee Tabibian joins to share what hitting refresh can look like, especially if you want to move abroad! As someone who also decided to move abroad and build a life outside of their home country, this conversation touches on all the tangible/tactical things to consider, as well as the more emotional, spiritual, and mental aspects that

   Sep 25,2023 48:50
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   2. Mario Pérez Fernández: The ebb & flow of power/choice

   *CONTENT WARNING: We talk about auto-immune diseases and ableism, diet culture, and depression. An intercultural and international relationship, choosing to work with your partner, and the power dynamics of all that - this episode invites you to join in on the conversation with my partner, Mario Pérez Fernández, and hear HIS perspective  Over the years, I’ve built a personal brand that brings my partner to the spotlight whenever he feels comfortable. Usually, he is in the background and doing a

   Sep 11,2023 01:03:00
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   3. Trailer: Heart-to-heart convos at 3am

   “I’m really grateful for our relationship…” Ever have that thought with someone in your life when you’re up at 3am having heart-to-heart conversations and it just hits you like… WHOA. This moment, right here and now, is the good stuff. This person, right here and now, just gets me and gets it. This relationship, right here and now, makes me feel seen, heard, held, and like I belong… even when I’m doing my own thing. It might be 3am where you are or some other time in the day, but I want to have

   Aug 28,2023 02:27
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   4. Season Finale: Does this matter if the world is ending?

   In the season final of the I’m lost, so what? Podcast, Cassandra is getting existential and asking you and the community… What is the purpose of life? And what is your purpose in life?  COVID, the last three years (2020-2023), the world being on fire, human rights and social justice issues being pushed to the side and forgotten… and the wariness we’re all feeling because it seems we ‘just can’t catch a break’... The questions “Does this even matter?” and “What is my purpose in life?” have come u

   Jun 19,2023 35:45
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   5. Why ‘home’ isn’t really a place…

   Is home a place, feeling, person… or something else?  In episode 11 of the I’m lost, so what? Podcast, Cassandra explores the concept of ‘home’ - especially being raised in dual cultures, Vietnamese-American, and now living in another culture, Spain. She explores the ideas of:EthnocentrismAssimilationBuilding a homeAnd of course, journaling prompts for you to explore this idea on your own If you’ve ever thought about what ‘home’ is like outside your own culture or home country, what home could b

   Jun 05,2023 28:20
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   6. You’re NOT a bitch for saying ‘no’

   Maybe you ARE a bitch… and maybe I am one, too…  In episode 10 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra dives into people-pleasing and the different sides of being a people-pleaser or someone who takes on everyone else’s shit. In this episode, Cassandra talks about:What it’s like being a people-pleaserWhere people-pleasing can come from (culturally)The shadow side of people-pleasingWhy we’re not bitchesAnd journaling prompts to explore If you’re a recovering people-pleaser or someone who’s felt the immen

   May 22,2023 27:16
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   7. How much of your story should you share?

   So you want to share more of your story - WE’RE HERE FOR IT!  The next questions we usually get are…What stories should I share?How much of my story should I share?How do I get over imposter syndrome?Will people really care? In episode 09 of the I’m lost, so what? Podcast, Cassandra dives into ALL the things around storytelling and sharing your message. She answers the questions and shares advice on:Why it’s important to share your storiesThings to watch out for when you start to put yourself ou

   May 08,2023 38:53
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   8. The evolution of friendship as an adult living abroad

   For all the people who don’t have ‘one core friend group’, and instead float between multiple friend groups - THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU (aka US!) ‍♀️ In episode 08 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra dives into the evolution of friendships as an adult living abroad and what it’s been like being a “floater”. If you’ve ever dealt with the difficulty of:Making friends as an adultMaking friends while living abroadFeeling like you’re extremely ‘alone’ even though you have multiple friend groupsFriendship b

   Apr 24,2023 37:58
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   9. 3 obvious signs you’re hiding from yourself

   You’re doing yourself a disservice by hiding all the time  In episode 07 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra brings back “Sassy Cassie” for some real talk about what it’s like to ‘hide’ from yourself and your greatness. No, this is not some ‘self-help’ and ‘empowerment’ talk (well maybe, it is a little)... This is the episode for you if you’ve ever felt overlooked, resentful, and… well, hiding. Cassandra covers:What hiding looks like and why we hideThe 3 signs we are hiding from ourselvesWhat to do

   Apr 10,2023 38:45
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    10. Are we in a parasocial relationship?

    How well do you really know that person you follow online?  In episode 06 of I’m lost, so what? Podcast, Cassandra dives into the very interesting dynamic of parasocial relationships - what they are, how they manifest in our lives, and how our current Internet-driven and social media-driven culture has shifted parasocial relationships. In this episode, Cassandra talks about:What are parasocial relationshipsHow they’ve changed over the years thanks to the Internet and social mediaHer own experien

    Mar 27,2023 38:56
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    11. Starting over is NOT for losers

    Who said we had to get it right the first time we do things?  In episode 05 of I’m lost, so what? podcast, Cassandra gives a very real look at all the times she had to ‘start over’ and from zero - whether that’s from choosing her degree in college, moving abroad, reinventing herself, or reorganizing her business… Cassandra talks about:Her experiences starting overHow each time she did, it taught her something new about herselfThe signs that it might be time to start overAnd a few reminders if yo

    Mar 13,2023 37:44
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    12. RIP to the “me” I learned to love

    How do you learn to love who you were and are becoming at the same time?  If you’ve ever experienced a large gap in ‘who you are’ and ‘who you want to be’ - this episode is for you. We’re getting existential and meta around identity deaths, grieving, and making space for all we are supposed to be! In episode 04 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra shares her personal experience around ‘identity’ and realizing that who she was was no longer serving her. DISCLAIMER: you may hear sniffles throughout the

    Feb 27,2023 33:50
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    13. “You’re the brand/niche” is toxic AF

    Are you the niche/brand?  In the world of Creators, influencers, thought leaders, and personal brands - one trend is growing in popularity and that’s the “anti-niche” Creator. What does that mean? That you don’t have a niche, you ‘are’ the niche… or you ‘are’ your brand. In episode 03 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra explores this concept with a critical and anti-capitalist lens and how being the ‘niche’ and ‘brand’ is actually toxic AF. You get to meet her alter-ego, “Sassy Cassie” who doesn’t h

    Feb 13,2023 34:56
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    14. 3 existential questions to consider if you want to be more visible

    The existential questions that no one asks before they tell you to get visible… Getting visible - either personally or professionally - is an act of courage, yet a lot of the inspirational and motivational quotes and images we see on Instagram and Pinterest don’t explore the nuance and layers of visibility… especially for Black, Indigenous, People of Color, Queer folx, and more. In episode 02 of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra dives into the nuance and gray areas of what it means to be visible, sho

    Jan 30,2023 31:51
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    15. Are we the lost generation?

    Are we the lost generation?  In this first episode of I’m lost, so what? Cassandra explores what is the ‘lost generation’ throughout history and what the term means to her today. She also shares a whole ‘full-circle’ moment as to why the podcast was created, why the name was picked, and the goal of this new creative experiment! In this episode, Cassandra coversWho is part of the ‘lost generation’?What Baby Boomers, Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z all have in commonWhat the lost generation looks li

    Jan 16,2023 25:07
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    16. Trailer

    “How long will it take to be successful?”“Don’t you think you should…”“When does this whole thing get easier?”“So you… don’t know what you’re doing?”Existential questions that plague our everyday, especially as multicultural, hyphenated-folx who are between belonging and carving our own paths.I'm lost, so what? podcast shares bi-weekly episodes to explore the nuance and gray areas of life, culture, identity, work, and simply existing.Join me, Cassandra Le, Speaker, Writer, and Founder of The Qui

    Dec 28,2022 03:00